Gulfport

Am I a bad wife if I dont want to try and go to Gulfport to see him a for a few hours before he comes the rest of the way home? Will he feel unloved? Will I feel bad? Will the kids? They're sending me the info about how to meet up with them there on thier way home but I just think it's silly to spend that much money to go down there. We've already waited 239 days, what's a few more?